Next steps

You’ve had the opportunity to share Jesus with a friend. What now?

Perhaps you’ve been on a journey towards Jesus with a friend. You talked about God, explained the Gospel, and they decided to give their life to Jesus. Awesome! The best thing to do now is lead them through a prayer. You don’t need an altar call or a pastor, any Christian can do this. Try a prayer like this (get them to repeat the sentences after you):

“Dear God. I know you love me. I’m sorry for my sin and that I have gone my own way. Thank you for your son Jesus who died on the cross for my sins and rose again. Today I turn from my sin and trust in Jesus alone. Amen.”

From this point, they need community, so invite them to church and stay connected with them. God placed you in their life to lead them to Jesus; now He wants you to help them grow deeper in Him too.

(Romans 10:9)
that if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.

But what if they decide not to follow Jesus?

First, don’t think that you’ve failed. They are on a journey, and everyone’s journey is different. Second, here are some suggestions of things to avoid. Don’t put pressure on them to change their mind. Don’t overload them with Bible verses and podcasts every second day. Don’t sign them up to get a phone call from your church without their permission. But also, don’t avoid them completely; the Holy Spirit may still be working on their heart. Instead, what should you do?

Pray for them.

The Holy Spirit is in the business of changing hearts. Commit to praying for them every day for a couple of months. Ask God to work in their lives, speak to them in the quiet moments, and bring the words you spoke to them to their memory.

Invite them to church.

If your friend has shown some interest in Jesus but isn’t ready to fully commit, being around a Christian community can be helpful. Sometimes people have heard bad things about church, so introducing them to a healthy church community that will love and accept them will speak volumes to them. It will also allow them to hear more about Jesus and the Gospel.

Remain connected with them.

Most people need time before they are convinced to follow Jesus. They will have questions and concerns. Stay in their life and make yourself available as they consider this decision. Keep praying for them as you love and support them. Remember, the Holy Spirit is still at work, so don’t give up and don’t be disheartened.

Commit to the journey with your friend whether they choose Jesus or not. Pray for them and stay connected with them.